Write@Home
Winter 2015

Self-Improvement

One of my biggest personal successes has been rebuilding my self-confidence. When I first arrived in Canada, I didn’t feel confident at all. I often doubted myself, compared myself to others, and felt like I wasn’t enough. I used to be more outgoing back home, but in this new environment, I became quieter and more insecure.

Over time, I realized that waiting for others to notice me or make me feel valuable wasn’t the solution. I had to start by valuing myself. So I changed my mindset. I began taking care of myself more, dressing how I wanted, speaking up even when it felt scary, and setting boundaries. I reminded myself that I am unique and worthy, no matter where I am or who I’m around.

Little by little, I started to feel a shift. People began to see my light again—but more importantly, I saw it. I’m still growing, but today, I feel more confident, more grounded, and proud of the person I’m becoming.