Write@Home
Winter 2015

Canada

View from airplane enroute Helsinki-Berlin, Germany

July 19, 2019, will forever be etched in my memory as the day I embarked on a life-changing journey to Ottawa. The day began at noon, filled with a mix of excitement and apprehension as I prepared to leave home at 6 p.m. for N'djili International Airport. The atmosphere at home was heavy with sadness as the reality of our impending separation set in. My family and I shared poignant moments, knowing that this departure marked the beginning of a new chapter in my life.

Before leaving, I had the chance to reunite with my friends for one last bittersweet gathering. We reminisced about our shared experiences and promised to stay in touch. These final moments together were a poignant reminder of the bonds I was leaving behind.

At around 5 p.m., we set off for the airport, our eyes reddened by emotion. The drive was quiet, each of us lost in our thoughts. Upon arriving at the airport, we went through the check-in formalities, a process that felt both routine and surreal given the circumstances. After saying our final goodbyes, I boarded the plane, my heart felt heavy yet hopeful.

The journey included a layover in Addis Ababa, providing a brief respite before continuing on to Canada. We arrived at Toronto Pearson International Airport around 4 p.m. The moment I stepped off the plane, I was greeted by an unexpected wave of heat. That contrasted the cooler climate I had anticipated. This initial impression of Canada was surprising, but it was only the beginning of my adjustment to a new environment.

By November, the reality of the Canadian climate became apparent. The cold was intense, far beyond anything I had experienced before. There were moments when the harsh weather made me question my decision and consider returning to Africa. However, over time, I began to adapt to my new surroundings. I learned to navigate the cold, find comfort in layers of warm clothing, and appreciate the beauty of a snowy landscape.

Settling into Canadian life took a few months, but gradually, I found my rhythm. I embraced the challenges and opportunities that came with living in my home-to-be country. Despite the harsh winters, I discovered a vibrant, diverse community in Ottawa that welcomed me and helped me feel at home.

Looking back, that day in July marked the start of an incredible journey of growth and adaptation. My experiences since then have shaped me in profound ways, and while the transition was not always easy, it was undoubtedly worthwhile. Each step of the way, from the tearful goodbyes to the initial culture shock, has contributed to my resilience and appreciation for the life I am building in Canada.